Attention Getter: “The consequences of today are determined by the actions of the past. To change your future, alter your decisions today. ” Introduction: Fear is the reason why abortion is the first choice for many girls. Unplanned pregnancies can lead to a quick uninformed decision that can alter the rest of your life. Abortion is like the death penalty. Once it’s done, it’s done. There should be nothing sad about giving life. We were all given life. Yes, the path of an unplanned pregnancy can be difficult, but abortion may not be the answer.
Before anyone makes an irreversible decision, they should ask themselves, is it worth it? Knowing why abortion shouldn’t be a first option, the affects of it, and considering how your future will be without it might help change your mind. Body: Merriam Webster defines an abortion as the removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus in order to end a pregnancy. When you find out that you are expecting a child that you did not plan for, it seems like the end of your life and dreams. So, often times, young girls will choose to have an abortion, but that’s not the only choice.
Choosing to parent is an option. Parenting is the most difficult but most rewarding job in the world. You can talk to your parents about their choice to give you life. They are probably glad they made the decision to parent. There is help and support for parents who are unprepared. You may find out that you will not be alone. You do not have to give up on your dreams, but it may take a little longer to achieve. Your child can be your motivation. Getting a chance to love and nurture a child, your child, is a gift to you that never ends. Adoption is another popular option.
Giving your child away to a loving family is an amazing sacrifice. There are so many couples who are unable to have a child but are willing to parent someone else’s child. People choose adoption for the same reason they would choose an abortion. Today, many adoptions are open, which means you can still have contact with your child. You will be able to watch him or her grow and develop without the extra expense. This will give you a peace of mind. According to childwelfare. gov, there are about 120,000 people who adopt each year. There is a waiting list of people who want to adopt.
Why not give them the chance? The decision to have an abortion is permanent and final. You can’t change your mind. A family wanting to raise a child would not get the chance if you choose abortion. You will never know what he or she looks like or hear your child call your name. Take the time and explore all of your options before you make an irreversible decision. Besides considering other options, knowing the affects of an abortion might alter a few minds. Emotional affects are the most common after having an abortion. The most common emotional affect is depression.
Careconfindential. com states that most women tend to have flashbacks, which can cause someone to become deeply depressed. Some ways to determine depression is sleeplessness, sadness, and the inability to interact with babies. Guilt is the runner up for common emotional affect. Guilt is a feeling of remorse. Guiltiness comes when someone is not confident with the abortion and when someone is unable to rationalize the need for the abortion. Having an abortion can have physical affects. Trying to have a baby later on down the line is a risk after having an abortion.
When having an abortion your cervix is dilated this will cause issues later on down the line. But the biggest risk is having a higher risk of getting breast cancer. According to The National Cancer Institute, Women who have abortions increase their risk of breast cancer by fifty percent. Abortion of a first pregnancy interrupts the natural growth process of the breast, leaving millions of cells at a high risk. Take the time out and think about how your future will be if you don’t go through with an abortion. Consider being a parent for a moment. Giving birth is such a beautiful thing and not every female is given the gift of child bearing.
Think about the joy that comes with seeing your baby for the first time. Think about the mother intuition that is developed while the baby is still in the womb, and think about how your baby will believe the world is in your hands and you are their hero. It is a scary, but an exciting feeling all at the same. Love consumes your heart, but having an abortion doesn’t give you the opportunity to experience this love and excitement. Of course, having a child at a young age will not be peaches and cream; however, parenting is the not the end of the world.
Parenting is rewarding and if you have the correct mindset, it is a door opener. It allows you to understand who you are, mature, and grow emotionally. According to plannedparenthood. org, many people say that parenting brings great happiness and a deeper understanding of themselves. The author of greatbiblestudy. com defines abortion as the murder of an innocent person which God has created. Having an abortion can torment you emotionally and sometimes physically. It brings about spiritual bondage which can hold on to you like a child holding on to his or hers favorite toy.
Having an abortion, according to some, is a violation of one of the Ten Commandments. The sixth commandment states, Exodus 20:13, “thou shall not kill. ” Kill can be translated to murder and many people would consider abortion murder. Although, everyone has their own opinion, you having an abortion is completely between you, your conscious, and God. Conclusion: Although being pregnant is a scary thing, there are choices. We all have the right to choose, but take your time and consider all of the options available to you. You should always inform yourself before making any life altering decision.